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Here’s A Selfish Reason To Be Kind To Your Spouse

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Written by: Peter Iglinski, University of Rochester

 Here’s A Selfish Reason To Be Kind To Your SpouseBeing compassionate to a spouse makes you feel good, even if the nice thing you did goes unnoticed.

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What Plato Can Teach You About Finding A Soulmate

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Written by: Firmin DeBrabander, Maryland Institute College of Art

What Plato Can Teach You About Finding A SoulmateIn the beginning, humans were androgynous. So says Aristophanes in his fantastical account of the origins of love in Plato’s Symposium.

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Here’s The Science Behind These 5 Classic Love Songs

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Written by: Nerissa Hannink, University of Melbourne

Here’s The Science Behind These 5 Classic Love SongsIn honor of Valentine’s Day, here are five love songs that pose serious scientific questions. Experts from the University of Melbourne offer insights about the evolution of love, how it changes our bodies, and what human couples can learn from prairie voles and spiders.

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We All Want Funny Mates But That’s Not Quite Enough

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Written by: Rick Hellman, University of Kansas

We All Want Funny Mates But That’s Not Quite EnoughStudy after study affirms that people want a partner with a sense of humor. But it’s less about cracking jokes than about finding a style of humor that makes you both laugh.

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How To Make Marriage Stronger at the Broken Places

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Written by: Gregg Levoy

The Secret of a Great Marriage: From a Frog to a Prince?My favorite fairy tale as a child was Cinderella, so when I met Charlie and fell in love with him, I thought my prince had come. But these kinds of fantasies are a setup for expectations that are impossible to fulfill...

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How To Be Your Own Relationship Therapist

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Written by: Kelly Johnson, M.D.

How To Be Your Own Relationship TherapistMaybe you can't see an obvious reason why you haven't found happiness in your relationships, but somehow it's not happening as you envisioned. You can't seem to locate the answers that will bring everything together. Don't give up. Understanding is a journey...

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Understanding Sexual Quality of Life in Aging Adults

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Written by: Miri Forbes, University of Minnesota; et. al

Why Sex Gets Better In Older Age

While aging is often associated with improvements in various life domains, the quality of sexual life typically declines. However, recent studies reveal that older adults prioritize the quality of sexual encounters over quantity, leading to a more satisfying sexual experience. This shift in perspective, along with life experience, can enhance sexual quality of life as individuals age.

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Teens Can't Tell The Difference Between Love Or Abuse

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Written by: Art Jahnke, Boston University

Many Teens Can’t Tell The Difference Between Love Or AbuseMany people involved in abusive partner relationships don’t think of the mistreatment as abuse, say researchers. Yet over the course of a lifetime, one-fourth to one-third of women in the United States will experience abuse from an intimate partner.

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Why Your Stress Can Add Inches To Your Spouse’s Waist

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Written by: Jared Wadley, University of Michigan

Why Your Stress Can Add Inches To Your Spouse’s WaistStress isn’t good for you, but it’s not good for your spouse, either. For older married couples, one spouse’s long-term stress can cause the other’s weight gain.

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How To Overcome That First Date Anxiousness?

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Written by: Olivia Remes, University of Cambridge

How To Overcome That First Date Anxiousness? Does anxiety keep getting in the way of you making connections with the people you’d like to spend more time with? Maybe you’ve just met someone, but are worried that your anxiety will ruin it all.

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Will I Ever Love Again?

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Written by: Susan Anderson

Will I Ever Love Again?People in the throes of a breakup universally express the fear that they will never love again. I was afraid of this myself for a few months after losing my life partner. In the midst of the despair and hopelessness, we believe that losing our loved one means losing the possibility for love and connection forever.

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Why Child Sex Abuse Doesn't Create Pedophiles

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Written by: Xanthe Mallett, University of New England

Why Child Sex Abuse Doesn't Create PedophilesA popular misconception is that most child sex offenders were once victims themselves. The theory is based on the erroneous assumption that they’ve become paedophiles – those preferentially sexually attracted to prepubescent children – because of their victimisation.

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Sex May Threaten Older Men’s Heart But Not So For Women

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Written by: Andy Henion, Michigan State University

Sex May Threaten Older Men’s Heart But Not So For WomenHaving sex frequently—and enjoying it—may put older men at higher risk for heart attacks and other cardiovascular problems. For older women, however, good sex may actually lower the risk of hypertension.

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How Love, Compassion, and Money Are Linked Together

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Written by: Stuart Wilde

How Love, Compassion, and Money Are  Linked TogetherThere's a psychological war that goes on in us humans between self-hate and self-love. It's a part of another battle that persists: the energy war between living and dying, building energy and depleting energy. The two issues are wrapped up with abundance and love, and they can very dramatically affect your ability to earn money and pull abundance to you...

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More People Get Divorced In March And August

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Written by: Deborah Bach, University of Washington

More People Get Divorced In March And AugustDivorce is seasonal, new research shows. It consistently peaks in March and August, following the winter and summer holidays.

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Understanding Attraction: The Science Behind Your Mate Selection

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Written by: Gayle Brewer, University of Central Lancashire

The Science Of Attraction Of A Suitable Mate

Exploring mate selection reveals the complex interplay of physical traits and health indicators that influence attraction. From body shape to dental aesthetics, various factors play a crucial role in how individuals assess potential partners. Programs like Naked Attraction highlight these dynamics, prompting discussions about the significance of appearance and underlying health cues in human relationships.

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The Blessing of Differences in Relationships

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Written by: Joyce Vissell

The Blessing of DifferencesDifference exist only on the surface. People sometimes use their differences as an excuse for their lack of closeness. And yet these differences can be a great blessing, and almost force a couple to go to a deeper place where the differences do not exist.

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Which Prompts More Sex Regrets - Getting Drunk Or Getting High?

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Written by: Christopher James, New York University

Which Prompts More Sex Regrets - Getting Drunk Or Getting High?For a new study, researchers asked people about their experiences before, during, and after sex while under the influence of marijuana and alcohol.

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Sexual Double Standards May Leave Students Feeling Disempowered

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Written by: Heather Hensman Kettrey, Vanderbilt University

Sexual Double Standards May Leave Students Feeling DisempoweredOver the past few years, there has been a steady flow of articles in magazines, newspapers and online news outlets examining what hookup culture on college campuses means for sexual norms and behaviors among young adults, particularly young women.

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The Right Kind Of Intimacy Keeps Couples Feeling Sexy

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Written by: Monique Patenaude, University of Rochester

The Right Kind Of Intimacy Keeps Couples Feeling SexyNew research suggests that there are ways for couples to sustain—or rekindle—their passion, despite the tendency of sexual desire to dwindle over time.

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Sexting Might Actually Be A Sign Of A Committed Relationship

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Written by: Rob Weisskirch, California State University, Monterey Bay

Sexting Might Actually Be A Sign Of A Committed RelationshipWhy do people sext? Why do they send racy or naked photos or videos and sexually loaded texts? For a short-term hookup, sexting might seem like a direct way to get what you want

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