InnerSelf Daily Inspiration

September 1, 2026

One Word Every Perfectionist Needs to Know

One Word Every Perfectionist
Needs to Know

By Julian Reeve

"Self-compassion allows us to turn toward and face the difficult feelings that arise when considering our own mistakes and misdeeds, meaning that we can see ourselves more clearly and do what's needed to make things better."

— Julian Reeve

I'd just conducted a performance of the Broadway musical Hamilton in San Francisco in 2017 when I experienced a heart attack on my way home. Tests proved that my right coronary artery was 90% blocked, and two stents were placed to get me on the road to recovery. I was 43 years old.

Work with a psychologist would later identify stress as the main cause of the attack. It would also uncover perfectionism as its silent partner. My own endless demands (and dubious lifestyle choices) driven by my bullying inner critic and fear of professional failure had finally taken their toll.

My psychologist introduced me to self-compassion, a proven technique that moderates the link between perfectionism and depression and helps perfectionists manage their traits in healthier ways. It proved to be a game changer. Self-compassion not only enables us to manage our perfectionism in healthier ways, but it also helps us become more productive. When we're compassionate, the parasympathetic nervous system—the body's built-in system that calms us down—switches on, which leads to higher creativity.

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Recommended Reading

Captain Perfection & the Secret of Self-Compassion: A self-help book for the young perfectionist

Self-compassion is 'the art of being kind to yourself' and is proven to help perfectionists manage their thoughts and behaviors in healthier ways. This self-help book inspires children (ages 6+) to understand their perfectionism before encouraging them to build their very own 'self-compassion superpower', a valuable resource when unhealthy perfectionism hits. Featuring fun stories, amazing exercises, and proven techniques, Captain Perfection and the Secret of Self-Compassion is the perfect self-help book for young perfectionists.

For more info and/or to order this book, click here. Also available as a Kindle edition.


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Recap

This week’s issue focuses on navigating uncertainty through awareness, emotional insight, and conscious decision-making. With the addition of expanded astrology tools, readers gain both practical and reflective guidance for personal growth and life transitions.

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